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Goodbye, Grace
I guess everyone thinks their dog is the best. We told her this a hundred times in the week before we said goodbye, and we meant it....
Jul 28, 20213 min read


My Mother in Blurry Shadows
There is an app called Blur Photo that allows you to safely post a photo that will, no surprise, blur faces. This Mother’s Day, I...
May 8, 20215 min read


One Year of Love Letters
“I think these are love letters,” my daughter said as she sat cross-legged on the floor of a storage unit that held the last of my...
Feb 14, 20215 min read


Quarantine Goal: Ace the Citizenship Exam
A few weeks ago we were having a pleasant family dinner on the front porch and when the conversation lagged a bit, my husband thought it...
Sep 23, 20205 min read


Quarantine Survive and Thrive: Journaling
March 10 was the last semi-normal day I remember. After an eye doctor appointment, I went back to work then stopped by the store on the...
Aug 24, 20205 min read


A Pandemic Lesson from Grace
My dog is terrified of storms. They are debilitating for her. Her legs shake, she can’t eat, she can’t sit or lay down and she pants as...
Jul 12, 20204 min read


Here for the Imperfect Days
My mother died 12 years ago today. I’ve been thinking about her more than usual, which means instead of five times a day, it’s ten times....
Apr 20, 20202 min read


About That Costume (and Trick or Treating)
The only photos I have of my childhood Halloween are the two years I was dressed as a clown. My mother was an excellent seamstress, but...
Oct 31, 20195 min read


Baking Like 1973
I’m a little edgy the week between Christmas and the New Year, trying hard to “take time off” but also feeling a looming sense that I...
Dec 30, 20185 min read


What Came Across My News Feed in Sewing Class
Yesterday we welcomed 13 new students for the fall session of our Refugee and Immigrant Sewing Enterprise. They came ready to sew, but...
Sep 18, 20184 min read


And Now, the Rest of the Story
Before we moved into our house last year, we constructed a long list of things we needed to purge and cable television was one of them....
Jun 19, 20186 min read


Generous People and Amazon Shopping
A while back, before I lived in the non-profit world and realized how truly generous most people are, I decided to ditch the corporate...
May 24, 20183 min read


Do the Right Thing: Some Thoughts on the Walkout
Our middle child, Erin, started kindergarten at a large public school in a suburb of Tulsa. On her first day at Jenks East Elementary, I...
Apr 13, 20185 min read


Lenten Deep Dive
My proclamation a few weeks before Lent began – that I was giving up grumbling for the six weeks – was probably a relief for the people...
Apr 1, 20184 min read


The Risk of Listening
This blog post is about Nambia. Yes, I’m going there. Not literally, because there is no country of Nambia. In a speech to African...
Sep 26, 20174 min read


Good with Imperfection
Shims. These are little pieces of wood that you purchase when the floors in your old house slant in three different rooms. I know this...
Mar 12, 20174 min read


An Update from Rosedale and 64th Place
This photo makes it clear (or it should) that we have not moved to the Rosedale house yet. It’s way past time for an update, so here...
Jan 19, 20172 min read


This Time Last Year
On Friday, I’m leaving town. It’s not the best time for me to be gone because we run a retail shop and it’s almost Christmas. And yet, it’s the best time for me to be gone because it’s almost Christmas. Dad died one year ago today, so I’m going to Colorado. It was Dad’s favorite place in the world and I’m hoping I can hold myself together until we get there. For several weeks leading up to this day, I’ve been a falling apart and recovering in equal measure. On certain days, I
Dec 7, 20165 min read


Owen Park’s Little Free Library
During our first and only showing of the Rosedale house, our realtor, Joy, ended it with an explanation about the structure on the corner...
Nov 20, 20163 min read


The Most Important Room: Before
The kitchen demolition at Rosedale started two weeks ago but I wasn’t there to watch since the kitchen really isn’t my territory anymore....
Oct 12, 20164 min read
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